A few weeks ago on one ordinary morning, three-year-old Nathan happened to notice our wedding photo on display in our dining area. That photo had always been there but for some reason, it was only that day when Nathan really took such an interest in it.
He asked many questions about it.
Why are you dressed like a princess mummy? And why is daddy like a prince?
Because that was when mummy and daddy got married.
Why? Why do you want to get married?
Because mummy and daddy want to be together.
Why? Why do you want to be together?
Because we love each other.
And so on, and so on… (as you can see, we are very much in the thick of the “whys” over here).
It was actually the very first time he was asking about the concept of marriage. So I brought out our wedding photo album to show him. He spent ages fully engrossed in poring over each photo.
This morning Nathan asked a lot of questions about our wedding photo hanging up on display. So I brought out mg wedding photo album for him to look at. He was fully engrossed in it poring over all our wedding photos. I'm glad for the opportunity for this first talk about the concept of love and marriage #parenting #love #marriage #wedding #photos
We had such a wonderful time looking at the photos together, pointing out some familiar faces of various family members. And I enjoyed reminiscing the beautiful memories of that special day.
As I was looking through these photos, I came across these few special little touches on our wedding day which I really loved…
I carried yellow roses for my bouquet
I wanted to hold on to something bright and cheery to reflect the happiness of that day.
We had a design-your-own card table for our guestbook
We prepared colour pencils, markers and cardstock for guests to get creative in designing their own message cards for our guestbook. The kids really loved it and it doubled up as a fun activity for them to do on that day.
I prepared a ‘blessing bouquet’ for the bouquet toss
I divided the flowers into little posies tied with ribbons which had a little verse written on them. So when I tossed the bouquet, the posies would come apart to be caught by several girls instead of just one. I wanted the significance of the toss to be about passing on a blessing to my friends (instead of the traditional “you’re next!”)
It’s been nine years since that day, but I still remember it so clearly in my mind. Like all weddings, it was a whirlwind of a day and was over in just a blink. But what remained after that day and what we still have today and for the rest of our lives together is our marriage.
Are you currently going through an onslaught of persistent little “whys” on a daily basis?
Have your kids ever asked about your wedding day? How did you share your memories of that day with them?