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Our toilet training journey so far

After my first initial foray into toilet training, it's been a slow and winding journey. We've had several false starts and countless accidents along the way.
But recently in just the space of the last couple of weeks, we've finally found our groove. Nathan is now semi-officially nappy-free (except for naps and night time).
When my mum was recently here to visit, she took the opportunity to give Nathan an intensive toilet training boot camp. She excitedly talked up the potty experience, meticulously guided and prompted him to take toilet breaks at frequent intervals and patiently cleaned up numerous accidents.
However, progress was still slow. He didn't seem at all bothered about the wetness and mess and had to be constantly reminded and dragged to the potty to make a deposit every single time... and he would rather let an accident happen and continue playing than stop to answer the call of nature.
But a few weeks ago, I noticed a great improvement in his toileting. He was regularly responsive to my potty break reminders (no fussing, nagging or dragging required) and his nappies were always dry at each toilet break.
We were on such a perfect streak, so on a whim one morning I decided to take off his nappy and let him try wearing undies again. As the weather was now turning so nice and warm, I let him run around in just plain undies to make it easier to pull them off and on by himself.
We started with two accidents on that first official undies-only day. Then one accident the next day. And then we were pretty much accident free on day three onwards. There was an odd slip up here and there. But it's been now over a week, and I think I can confidently say that we are finally on a roll.
I'm really proud of my little man for finally stepping up to the plate and being so initiative and positive about the whole process.

I don't claim to be an expert, but I thought I'd share some of the little things we did which I think helped in our situation:
  • We had two potties placed at different parts of the house to save a potential long run all the way from one end of the house to the other just to get to the toilet in time.
  • We positioned one of the potties around the TV area so potty-time doesn't become a major deterrent during a really exciting programme (I plan to gradually shift the potty further away and closer to the toilet over time)
  • Once the weather was warm enough, we let Nathan run around in just undies so that he would be immediately conscious of any accidents and to make it easier for him to pull them off and on himself.
  • We rolled up the carpet and put some protective sheets the couch to make it easier to clean up any messes and accidents

The next step for Nathan's toilet training would be to practice using the 'big' toilet, then try going nappy-free outside the house, and after that move on to going nappy-free for naps and eventually through the night.
If you have any tips on moving on to toilet training for naps and through the night, do share them with me.


  1. Congratulations! It is a big step in their development. Our 3 year old is off the nappies for naps too. We get her to go to the toilet at regular times - when she gets up, before and after we go out, and before bed. Her body learns to just go at certain times.

    We also have a stool so she can reach the big toilet and just uses that all the time. She loves the independence of going 'by myself'. I even have to close the door!

    1. Thanks, Lani! Yup, it takes discipline on our part too to remember to let Nathan visit the toilet at those times... i.e. before going out, before/after meals, before naps etc. It's been going really well!

  2. Congratulations! We had a (relatively) easy transition to undies, but my daughter still asked for a nappy to do number twos for another 8 months! We've finally kicked it, such a good feeling isn't it. No more nappies!

    1. 8 months! Gosh... well, thanks for mentioning that so I can try and manage my expectations in the journey ahead *LOL*

      And yes if definitely helps now that the number of nappies is SIGNIFICANTLY reduced, especially with baby #2 chalking up her share of nappies in the household!


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